Hip Advice for Beach Wedding Clothes
If you have never attended a beach wedding but you’ve received an invitation, you might be bewildered by how to go about selecting appropriate beach wedding clothes. Most weddings are either formal or dressy, but now you’ve been invited to a wedding where the ceremony is on the beach!
Guys might wonder whether they should wear beach shorts with tropical prints or go more formal with designer silk suits. And is it better to neatly comb your hair, or let it be wild and tangled like a surfer’s? Ladies can also have questions about wedding beach clothes. Would a pair of flip-flops be right, or should you wear the $500 red Prada pumps you save for special occasions? Typically, a beach wedding is less formal than a more traditional church wedding. Beach attire for a seaside wedding normally is more casual too.
Some wedding guests are fortunate and receive invitations with hints about what they should wear. If your invitation didn’t give you a clue, send the bride and groom a quick email asking for their suggestions before you start planning your beach wedding clothes. They will probably suggest some type of upscale beach attire, but no matter what they recommend, they’ll appreciate your concern and the indication that you are planning to attend.
If you’re still unclear after you ask, here are some guidelines to help you:
Men’s Wedding Beach Clothing: You can forget about wearing black beach wedding clothes. Black is usually reserved for the groom (although this rule isn’t quite as strictly followed as the rule that says white is reserved for brides). A white cotton shirt with a button-down collar is usually safe for a less formal ceremony when it’s paired with dress slacks.
If you’d feel more comfortable in a suit, go with linen slacks and jacket in a lighter color with a casual, striped shirt underneath – this will give you an air of relaxed formality and help you strike the perfect balance between casual and dressy. If you want to be more adventurous (or beachy) go with well-tailored cotton, linen or silk-blend draw-string pants or shorts and a tropical-print silk shirt.
For footwear, leather sandals are a good choice (though you want to make sure they’re open enough to let the sand out). Leather flip-flops work well too. It can be fine to even go barefoot, although that depends on how formal the occasion is and exactly what you’re wearing (you wouldn’t want to go shoeless if you were sporting an expensive linen suit).
Women’s Wedding Beach Clothing: Never out-dress the bride. You don’t want to upstage the star of the show. Formal weddings give you more opportunity to dress up. If the ceremony will be casual, the sort of beach attire you’d wear at an upscale resort would be your best choice. Tropical destinations almost beg for lightweight cotton or rayon skirts. Match one of these skirts with an island-style cotton or rayon top in bright, primary colors, and the look you achieve will be perfect. Jersey dresses, when they’re well tailored, are another good choice.
As for length, a shorter dress or skirt will be best on the wedding beach. Try to avoid wearing a long dress and high heels, because these can make walking through deep sand almost impossible. Add some chic, subdued “bling” like a bracelet, necklace and earrings with an island or beach theme and you’re almost there.
To complete the look, wear sandals or dressy flip-flops with pretty painted toe-nails. If you’d rather go barefoot, wear a toe ring, ankle bracelet or barefoot sandals. Foot jewelry works particularly well if it is crafted from coral, shells or other items that show off your beach wedding clothes.
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